Thinking About Moving Abroad in 2025? Here are the lessons I learned as an American abroad
The world is changing - many people are ready to take the leap and move to another country. If you are one of them, here are the things that I learned as an American abroad.
As you’ve found your way to this article, I’m going to assume that you’re an American thinking about moving abroad.
You’re certainly not alone in this endeavor. According to one site, the number of Americans looking to move abroad surged by over 1500% after the November election of 2024. That is a crazy number.
This post is dedicated to my experience as an American abroad in hopes to give others an idea of what this journey looks like.
Here’s my story:
In September 2020, I masked up and made my way to the airport with a one-way ticket to Leeds, England, where I spent 3 years as an undergraduate student. During this time, I earned my bachelor’s degree, built a life in the UK, and absolutely fell in love with slow travel.
Even though my original plan was to leave and never return (i.e., pursue a Graduate Visa after graduation), life happened, and I ended up back in the US in September 2023.
I spent a year at home in the US, focused on laying a solid foundation for my career, reconnecting with family in person, and planning for my next chapter.
I am now a digital nomad, traveling the world while working remotely.
This article looks back at where my nomadic journey began and dives deep into everything I learned living in the UK as an American. My hope is that you can get a sense of what it’s like to leave the US and begin your journey in another country.
Before we get into what I learned as an American abroad, here are some of my favourite resources:
Here’s what I learned as an American who moved abroad:
Slowing Down is Okay
After years of American hustle culture, living in England changed my perspective. As I travelled across Europe, I saw a theme in culture: work is just a means to live. Life is about family, friends, and hobbies.
Seasonal Living is an Art
Coming from sunny California and Texas, northern England’s winters hit hard. Embracing hygge – cozy lighting, blankets, and seasonal foods – helped me appreciate winter’s slower pace, making summer feel even more magical.
Expat Life is a Bubble
You’re caught between two worlds – never fully belonging to either. You watch events unfold from a distance, both at home and in your host country.
Homesickness Hits Unexpectedly
A grocery store trip might trigger a wave of nostalgia over a missing cereal brand (or in my case, ranch dressing 😜). You’ll miss milestones, but one day, you’ll visit home and start missing your new country too.
Free Healthcare is a Game-Changer
I hesitated to see a doctor after an injury until my flatmate reminded me it was free. The relief of accessible (affordable if not free) healthcare was eye-opening – something many Americans don’t realize until they experience it firsthand.
Queer Safety & Community Exist
Attending a Pride parade in Leeds, England was life-changing. It was uplifting, safe, and empowering. It reminded me how vital it is to live in a place that celebrates who you are.
Moving abroad comes with its challenges but it also comes with valuable insight and safety. If you have an opportunity to do it and feel the pull to, I say you should absolutely do it.
Make sure to do your research and from one nomad to another – I wish you the best in this journey!